3 Mistakes That Men Make When Looking for a Companion or Woman in Other Roles

Here are the critical mistakes that lead men to spending a lot of money and not finding the right person, and that men can easily avoid when they look for a woman on the internet:

1. Men don't care who they go with  

Being impatient, desperate, frustrated, exhausted, resigning, suppressing pleasures over a long time, taking substances, or various combinations of these factors can drive this one. Hence when the urges hit, these men want a woman immediately. So they dial several numbers and wait who responds first, second… The danger of this approach is that men end up with women who care about their interests and treat the men accordingly…. That starts a vicious circle: men pay high amounts for awkward fake(d) “pleasure”. Then they are frustrated and repeat the mistake… 

Years go by, time flies… How is that fun? Wouldn't choosing a woman who had all the traits of your dreams be more fun? Look at it this way: if a woman called you and didn't even know who she was talking to and where she saw your number, what message would that send? That she doesn't care about who she goes with. If she doesn't care, why should you care? The message is subtle, but powerful and profoundly disrespectful. Does the fact that she is to pay entitle her to disrespect? If it does, will disrespect breed respect?

2. Men don't research women - they click on impulse

Many men don't even remember where they see the details of the women they call. They act on impulse. Let's feel good. Who cares about research? Let's have fun right now – often also drunk, , drugged, or both. Those states certainly don't encourage research. But if you don't do your research, how do you know what you're signing up for? Associating with the wrong women could have tragic – at worst even lethal – consequences for your health, career, family… 

Another benefit of researching = reading the official website of - the women whose ads you like is that you know what you can expect. You know what you will get for how much. And you won't put yourself in an awkward position. 

You'll also come across as much more respectful if you show that you want to make an informed choice! Planning prevents poor performance. Investing a few minutes in reading about the pretty women in the pictures that have caught your eyes will pay you higher dividends than will be the amounts of their fees.

3. Men don't know what they want

This one may sound crazy, but is the most common. Even men who care about who they go with and research their conquests often do not know what they want from those women. Or even why they're looking for them. Do you have clear criteria for choosing a woman online? Do you know what you want from her and your relationship with her? 

What's your goal of wanting to engage with a woman? To feed your ego? To blunt the emptiness from which you can't hide? Perhaps to deflect your anger at something or someone? To prove to yourself that money can buy you good sex and pleasure? Or to celebrate the finer moments of life? Or even to have a stable lover / friend whom you can entrust your body and things that your family and friends shouldn't know? What do you want her to do and be for you? Get this clear – you can even write it! You will focus on looking for the right person. Not leaving it to chance.

Men who make these mistakes when choosing a woman on the internet

congregate in the highest number in the low rungs of the market. But there's plenty of room for improvement in the high rungs too. If all my friends can have been selective about me, so can you – if you're one of the men who need to learn this lesson. 

The added benefit of caring, researching, and knowing what you want is that your partner in fun will view you as an intelligent being worthy of her trust. Hence your relationship will begin on good footing. And you should do all three things! After all, aren't you buying connection which should be far more intimate than are all other connections with all other people in your life? 

I'm here to help you clarify what you want, why you should care who you go with, and how to do your research before you go with them. 

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