Fix Jealousy In Your Relationship

How Do You Fix Jealousy In Your Relationship When You're An Escort?

The short answer is probably that you don't, but there are some things to take into consideration before jumping to that conclusion.

Did your partner know what you do for a living when you started dating?

There are some important points to consider, for sure. If your relationship is in trouble and your partner has asked you to stop working as an escort, then you might have some pretty serious conflict on your hands as you go forward. Any escort knows that having a relationship is never simple but an escort can be in a real relationship if things are clear from the start. Jealousy can be a really complicated emotion to deal with, and an even more complicated one to reel in once it's on the loose.

Most people experience feelings of jealousy when they're in a relationship and it can be really hard to deal with for the average couple. When you're an escort though, the jealousy can go to a different level altogether. To an extent, it's really easy to understand why that is. There are so many different things to consider when it comes to dealing with jealousy in a relationship when you're an escort. The first thing to really think about though is the communication between you and your partner.

Sure, they don't need all of the details, but they do need to be aware of what it is that you're doing. Having anything like that come up unexpectedly is basically a ticking time bomb for a relationship. Remember that the first and the best thing you can do when it comes to your relationship is to be transparent and completely honest. Again, this doesn't mean that you need to share the details, but it does mean that you shouldn't be purposely hiding or withholding anything from your partner. That can only end badly. It's entirely possible to be in a jealousy-free relationship if you're honest from the beginning and learn to balance your dating life with your work.

Did Your Partner Know What You Did When You Starting Dating?

It's pretty important to be completely honest with your partner about what you do, as we've mentioned. If you got together with them while you were already an escort, then you can feel pretty confident about where they stand with your profession and what that entails. If you haven't been straightforward with your partner, some jealousy issues will definitely come up once they find out.

In all honesty, you can pretty much be sure that your relationship will end if you haven't been honest with your partner about what you do, and they end up finding out. So yet again, be honest in the first place. You also probably won't want to pick up being an escort during your relationship. Not an easy thing to do, and in most cases, you can be sure that this would be the end of your relationship.

If your partner did know what you were doing for work when you started dating though, and you're still having to deal with some pretty strong jealousy issues, you're likely to face some challenges in your relationship. Jealousy can come up in any relationship, but if you've been doing this since before you and your partner started dating and you're still dealing with his jealousy, then there's a good chance that your relationship isn't going to last very long.

The truth is that they've had time to adjust, so if they simply can't deal with what you do, and that's what extreme jealousy will indicate, then you should consider that it might be time to move on from this relationship. It doesn't mean that they're a bad person but it does mean that they could simply be a bad match for you. If your partner was well aware of your occupation when you started dating but he is still very jealous, then you have some serious things to think about. Don't forget that you can't please everyone and you do need to love yourself first.

List Of Things To Consider

-Let them know what escort service you offer: When you do talk to your partner about what you do, it's a good idea to let them know the services that you offer. If they have any really strong feelings about something that you do and it's something that you can understand, then consider making some changes for the sake of your relationship. Any reasonable request is worth considering. If you're not willing to do that though, explain why that is and if they can get past it, then that's great. If they can't get past some of the things you're doing, and you feel strongly about continuing, then you're going to experience a lot of jealousy and conflict in your relationship.

-Tell your partner that jealousy is a deal-breaker: When you're an escort, it's a simple fact that jealousy simply will not do. If your partner is someone who has a jealous nature, or they keep bringing things up about your occupation in a negative manner, then you need to make sure they understand that this is a deal-breaker. While you do owe your partner honesty and common courtesy, you don't owe it to anyone to be an emotional punching bag, or to deal with their insecurities on a daily basis. You've got a job that can put a lot of pressure on you, to begin with. Don't take on any more than you need to.

-Don't get into too much detail: When you do talk to your partner about what you do, you shouldn't need to get into the deep details about your work. It's great to be transparent, but if you're feeling uncomfortable about what they're asking you to divulge, then there's probably a good reason for that and you shouldn't ignore how you're feeling about it. If you and your partner can keep things at a healthy distance and you can be happy without having to focus on the details of your occupation, then you've likely got a relationship that is very much worth holding onto. If your partner is jealous because of what you do, this not a good sign at all.

-Is there understanding with your partner?: To take the last point a bit further, if your partner is understanding about what you do and they get that it's an occupation, not a hobby, then you're going to be fine. If you find that the understanding is lacking though, you need to figure out why that is. If it's an issue of jealousy that you don't see a potential resolution for, then you don't have the kind of understanding you need in order to make your relationship work while being an escort at the same time. It's probably also a good idea to point out that someone who's got such jealousy issues while you're working as an escort is very likely to continue feeling contempt towards you, even if you decide to change your profession at some point - even if you do it for them.

-Limit conversations about what you do: If you're in a relationship, talking about work is probably not the best idea. If you had a rough day on the job, you'll probably want to talk to a trusted friend or therapist about it, because it's not something that most partners want to hear. Just think if the shoe was on the other foot, even if you can be cool with what they do for a living, would you really want to have extended conversations about it? Chances are that you probably wouldn't - and chances are that your partner doesn't want to, either. Know where to draw the lines when it comes to discussing your job and set some boundaries.

-There is a strain on your relationship: If there is a strain on your relationship, then this is a really bad sign. It sucks to think about it, but if your occupation is something that your partner can't get on board with, or they just can't seem to get over their feelings of jealousy, then you need to consider that the relationship might be good for you. Relationship strain due to jealousy is simply one more thing on your plate that you don't need. No one needs that. If they know what you do for a living from day one and they've decided to be with you, then you shouldn't have to deal with the jealousy.

-Make time to discuss what you are doing and why: Do be open about discussing things with your partner, though. It doesn't mean that you need to talk about the details. Again, we've mentioned how detrimental that can be. If your partner is cool about what you do and they genuinely have some legitimate questions for you, then you should answer them. There's nothing wrong with sharing some specifics with your partner if they're coming from a genuine place. Being open is always the best way to make things work.

Is Your Relationship In Trouble?

Hopefully, the answer to this is - no! If you think your relationship is in trouble though, then ask yourself and your partner why that is. Try and have a genuine heart-to-heart conversation with them where you're both totally open with each other, and see where you're both coming from. If this is something that you can both overcome, then do it! If you come to the end of the conversation and there's no resolution in sight though, then consider that your relationship might be heading towards the finish line, and find a way to be okay with that.

Has Your Partner Asked You To Stop?

Again, the short answer is that you probably don't. Take the necessary things into consideration before jumping to that conclusion, though. If your partner knew what you do before you started dating, and you've considered all the points, then your relationship is probably in trouble. Especially if your partner has asked you to stop doing what you do but you don't want to do that. It's a lot to think about, but if you're honest with yourself, you're sure to find the right answer for your situation. Jealousy simply won't work in a relationship with an escort.

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