How Do You Differentiate Your GFE Client From Your Significant Other?

How Do You Differentiate Your GFE Client From Your Significant Other?

So, how do you differentiate your GFE client from your significant other? You first need to balance your multiple GFE clients and your significant other effectively, and there are some really important points to consider. When you appropriately outline the services that you offer to your GFE client, you'll easily see the differences between your GFE client and your partner.

Sound easier said than done? Well, that's probably because it can be. But it really doesn't have to be when you're aware of the importance of setting boundaries and not crossing any lines. A GFE experience is something that a lot of men are willing to pay you good money for, but you already know that part of what you do as an escort is to put on a really good act. You're not being paid to bare your soul or fall in love. You're being paid to effectively offer a service that's going to provide someone with a special experience that they're missing in their life. That's really it at the end of the day.

Making sure that you're offering great services to your GFE clients is obviously very important, but it's also very important to remember that you're providing a service, and not actually being a girlfriend. Whether you've got a partner or not, this is really important to think about because there can be extra unnecessary strain placed on you when you're taking on the emotional weight of a relationship - especially when it's not actually one you're in. Your happiness and boundaries start with you, and you can set very effective boundaries and successfully balance your GFE client as well as your partner a lot more easily than you might think. This brings us to our next point.

Balancing Your Significant Other And Your GFE Client

So, we've mentioned how important it can be to set boundaries when it comes to your clients and your partner. The importance of this can't really be overstated. If you're looking for the best way to balance the two, then the most important place to start will be remembering that there should be no balance. Your GFE clients should never compromise your actual relationship. They're just clients. If you have a GFE client who's putting strain on you to the extent that you have to worry about your real personal relationship and how to balance the two, then you should consider letting this client go.

The GFE can lead to some pretty clingy clientele and in a way, that can be a good thing because it's helping you make some good money with a regular client who's sure to continue coming to see you. If you're going to specialize in GFE though, then you will need to ensure that you're not being too available to your clients. This can lead to a lot of conflicts when it comes to your relationship, and not only that, you can be potentially put far more pressure on yourself than you need to be. Not to mention that you might have to deal with jealousy in your relationship.

Your occupation already comes with a lot of built-in pressure, so the last thing you need to do is to take on clients who are causing you pressure outside of your working hours. If you're not getting paid, then you shouldn't be hearing from clients. They should respect your hours. Your partner should never feel like their time with you is being compromised by your clients, and in all honesty, letting that happen is sure to create some serious difficulties. So, if you're in a situation where you're having some difficulties finding balance, there are some things to consider, which brings us to our next point.

Things To Consider When Balancing Your GFE Client And Your Partner

-Are there feelings involved?: Well, if you've got a partner and you're offering the GFE to clients, if you notice that feelings begin to develop on your client's side, then you need to nip that in the bud. Break it off with that client. A regular client isn't likely worth losing your partner over, and having someone else in the picture who's got feelings for you, who you're also having sex with on a regular basis is not a very good idea. If you've caught feelings, then you need to either cut ties with the client or consider letting your partner go. Being an escort is something that your partner may be willing to understand, but if you've got feelings for a client and you're having sex with someone else, that's crossing a line.

-All business, no personal agendas: To put a stronger point on some of the things we've talked about above, a balance between your clients and your partner can be found by keeping business strictly business. Keep all of the necessary boundaries in place and don't ever make exceptions. You're not on call when you're enjoying your specified downtime so don't be always available to your clients. If you sense that a client is taking it to another place, then be willing to drop your client.

-Places to avoid going with your GFE client: Any places at all - even in the same area of town - that you go out with your significant other should never, ever be places that you go out to with your GFE clients. You should also make sure that you have a firm boundary in place, on the off chance that you might run into a client while you're out with your partner. They should never be approaching you when you're out on your own time. You could be out with another client for all they know, right? The rule should always be - if you cross paths out in public, you simply pretend the other isn't there. Have a much easier time avoiding this altogether when you only go to places that you never visit in your personal life.

-Should you be a GFE escort when you have a partner?: This is completely dependent on the escort and the relationship that they're in. If you're a total professional and you and your partner both know that, than being in a relationship while you're providing clients with the GFE could very well end up being a non-issue. If you're playing your cards right, then all should be well. On the other hand, if you find that it's causing issues in your relationship with your partner, then you should consider not providing the GFE to clients as long as you're in a relationship. It really depends on the dynamic between you and your partner, and also how much you value the relationship.

-Limit the time on your GFE dates: GFE should not be the entire focus of the services that you offer if you're in a relationship. This is something that's actually really important to consider. There are also a lot of other things to consider, such as the fact that other people you know go out in public as well, and if you're always out on GFE dates, then you're sure to eventually run into people who know you and your partner. It's really only a matter of time. In general, though, no one likes the idea of their partner being intimate like that with anyone else - much less many others - so keep that in mind when you're taking on clients who want the GFE.

-Should you tell your GFE client you have a partner?: This is really a personal call. The proper answer should probably be, no. Why should you have to tell them? You're providing a service, you're not actually in a relationship with them. Any client who needs to have this clarified is probably not a client that you'll want to have. When you're setting boundaries with your clients, that's as simple as it should be. You don't need to divulge information about your personal life to anyone, and any client who thinks you should is a major red flag. Keep your boundaries strong!

-Is this going to work out, balancing both your GFE client and your partner?: This is entirely up to you. If you're not feeling it though, then you're ultimately going to end up needing to make a decision, one way or the other. Do you want to continue offering the GFE to clients, or do you value the relationship you're in more? Entirely up to you!

Services That You Offer Your GFE Client

You should always keep the services that you're offering very clear! Perform the services that you've clearly offered, and remember that you're not required to offer anything else at all. Offer the talking and the intimacy that your clients are seeking, and offer them the sexual services that you're comfortable with performing. It's really as simple as that. You'll also want to very heavily consider keeping certain sexual activities strictly between you and your partner. This is a boundary that you're absolutely entitled to and you're also entitled to keep your reasons for doing so to yourself. If this is where you stand as an escort who offers GFE, then that's all your clients need to know. You'll likely find as well that most of them are totally cool with it.

Your GFE Client And Your Partner - The Differences

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