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HOW TO SCORE A DATE WITH A UK ESCORT

How To Score A Date With A UK Escort There's a first time for everything, and using an escort service is no different! Some men become seasoned professionals, hiring escorts regularly and some will only ever use their services once or twice. Whatever you decide to do, the first call

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How To Score A Date With A UK Escort

There's a first time for everything, and using an escort service is no different! Some men become seasoned professionals, hiring escorts regularly and some will only ever use their services once or twice. Whatever you decide to do, the first call is always the most nerve-racking. While setting up a date with a UK escort can seem daunting, there are ways to make it easier so you can set up your date with confidence. Thankfully, with more relaxed laws surrounding the industry, it's becoming increasingly common. While paying for sex is legal, public solicitation is not, so as long as you don't chat about it in person everything is perfectly fine! Recent reports reveal that 1 in 10 British men have paid for sex and most of them are actually well-educated working professionals like barristers, doctors or businessmen. Since first times are usually easier with a little guidance, we've compiled some of the best advice to help make scoring that escort date a fun and stress-free experience.

Do Your Research

First things first. Do your research! If you've decided to hire an escort, chances are you already have something in mind regarding how you'd like the date to go and what your needs are. Knowing if you want a GFE (girlfriend experience) or a PSE (pornstar experience), for example, will help you find the right escort for you. Services that are offered are listed on escorts' individual profiles, giving you a quick and easy way to identify if she may be able to get you what you're looking for. If you need help narrowing it down, or finding the specific terms you should use when booking, check out our glossary of escort terms and slang here to help break it down. Professionals will always include detailed lists of what they offer, where they're located and if they tour, and similar details. Not all escorts offer the same services, and it's definitely not a "one size fits all" industry. Oftentimes the sheer volume of selection possibilities makes sifting through the profiles an overwhelming experience. Doing a little bit of research and knowing what you want ahead of time will help make finding the right escort for you a lot simpler. Do not ever ask an escort to provide a service she does not offer, or is uncomfortable with. Respecting her limits and boundaries as well as personal safety are paramount to being not only a good client, but a good human being. Carefully read as much as possible before placing your call to the selected escort. Reviews are an enormously helpful way to identify what services an escort may offer and what she is like outside of her online presence. Many reviews describing the same woman as sociable, bubbly, friendly and easy to talk to are pretty good indicators of accuracy within escort profiles. If you have questions that can't be answered through her reviews or profile, write them down and don't be afraid to ask for clarification during your initial call or email. Discussing things in person is frowned upon, so doing as much chatting as possible over the telephone or via email is the best bet. It also gets a lot of that awkwardness out of the way, and provides a seamless date that flows from start to finish.

Avoid The Scammers

Once you know what you'd like and how you want your date to go, the next step is to find the right site. This means avoiding the scammers and fake ads. First, find a reputable site to browse. Pop up or sponsored ads on Google and other sites like Kijiji or Craigslist are sure ways to come across scammers by the dozen. Anyone asking for credit card information or deposits generally uses that as a way to collect money and then vanish. If you see low rates that seem too good to be true, overly pixelated images with questionable wording, or broken website links, those are some serious red flags to avoid. Companies that ask you to register and then provide credit card information are also likely scams. A full list of the best ways to detect fake ads and avoid scammers is available to read here. At the end of the day, if you have a feeling in your gut that the escort may not be real, believe it! You're probably correct. Stick with reputable sites and verified escorts with clear, full images and well-reviewed profiles.

Find The Right One

Once you've found yourself looking at profiles of escorts, you just need to find someone that seems like they would be a good match for you. Think about what you expect from a date, whether it's someone impressive and sociable to spend time with at a wedding or social event or simply someone you would like to spend a brief amount of time with. You don't need to worry about whether or not you'll see her just the one time or become a regular. The benefit of hiring an escort is that it's not like the traditional dating scene! You're paying for services, like any other business and if you decide you want to try something new, you can always look at working with someone else next time. There are no commitments or obligations, but with that said, a lot of gentlemen will find themselves becoming regulars of one particular escort. This is beneficial because it creates a familiarity and makes future bookings simpler. If you're on good terms with your escort, similar to having a favorite hair stylist, she will get to know your wants and needs and you'll find a good rhythm that suits you both. Explore all the escorts and their profiles, and check services they offer. If you've made sure that their external links work, you like their image selection and they check off all the right boxes for being a legitimate escort, contact them according to their preferred method they have listed. Most often this will be a telephone number.

Reach Out

Preparing for the telephone call and booking process is one of the key steps a lot of men don't think about too much until it happens. There are a few surefire ways to help it go smoothly and comfortably. First, only call once you're ready to book. Wasting time by trying to be sleazy on the phone or asking questions that are easily Google-able may end up costing you your booking. Phone calls are not just a booking method, but a screening process. This is beneficial to both the client and the escort to ensure everyone's safety. If you're unprepared or just trying to have a chat, you're wasting time and she will question your motives. When meeting strangers for the first time, it's imperative that you both screen each other as much as possible to protect yourselves from scammers. Don't worry if the initial call doesn't go as you expected. Prepare for a business-like tone, with no sexual tone or tempting language. It's not up to the escort to try to draw you in with seductive language, the onus falls on the client to separate themselves from the trolls and time wasters. It has been reported by escorts that 90% of their initial contacts are from callers who have not read their profiles clearly and do not follow simple instructions on how to approach them to book. When completing forms or emailing an escort be sure to use full sentences that reflect that you have read and understood everything in full. If you have questions, cite what you misunderstood and she will be happy to assist you. Serious clients will be courteous and respectful during the booking call and generally will be prepared for all the stages leading up to their date. These are not call centers where someone will pick up your call and be happy to serve as your own personal Google. If you think you might need some extra tips for becoming a good client there are excellent resources available here. Generally answering any questions that she asks and being as clear, concise and prepared as possible will help you to stand out from the rest. Escorts often receive hundreds of spam callers, sleazy men, hagglers and trollers. Showing her you know what you want and respect her safety and rules will take you far. When initially contacting an escort, avoid using short messages and greetings like you might see in a private chat room or messenger. Do not ask for rates or services that are clearly listed. Do not try to sell yourself to her in a sleazy way or try to score free services. Simply stating your name, age and occupation as well as where you found her advertisement is enough. If you have a specific time and date in mind, list it along with your contact information. Be specific about the amount of time you would like to book, for example don't say "a few hours", tell her you would like to book for 3 hours, between 8pm to 10pm. Being clear and concise is key. Feel free to describe yourself a bit, not in a sexual way, but your general appearance so she will recognize you. You may also include things that interest you if you like. Be personable but courteous. Provide any relevant information in the exact same straightforward manner that you would to a receptionist at any business like the mechanic or doctor's office. Escorts may share their schedule online, which will include on and off days. If it is listed, respect her schedule. Do not call outside of her business hours. An immediate sign to an escort that you don't respect her or her profession are middle of the night "booty calls" to try to desperately seek last minute attention. Try to give 24+ hours notice for bookings. Last minute bookings show minimal respect for her and her profession as well as her time. Preparing for dates requires a lot of time and effort, and most escorts will not be able to get ready comfortably and properly at the drop of a hat 15 minutes before you want to see her.

Have Fun!

Upon arrival to your incall or outcall date, take a little time to talk to her before getting right into anything. Arrive on time, and call if you think you may be running late. The best clients will often pay for extra time and have drinks beforehand. This shows how much you care about her and respect her time and profession. Gifts and tokens are always welcome and tipping is encouraged. Never discuss money and payment and don't hand it to her directly. Leave it in an unsealed envelope somewhere visible for her. Most often this is the bathroom counter of the bedroom. This takes care of any awkwardness about payment afterwards and allows for an easy exit once your time is up. Don't linger, it won't hurt her feelings if you leave when you're done! If you think about it, most of the steps to scoring a date are pretty straightforward and if you're genuine about booking, she will be more than happy to work with you.

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HOW TO SCORE A DATE WITH A UK ESCORT