Tips On How To Become A Good Client One of the biggest question on men's minds when booking appointments with escorts is "how do I be a good client?" If you care enough to ask the question, that's already an excellent start! Being a great client isn't actually as hard
One of the biggest question on men's minds when booking appointments with escorts is "how do I be a good client?" If you care enough to ask the question, that's already an excellent start! Being a great client isn't actually as hard as you might think. There are some general rules and "escort etiquette" you can follow to not only be a good client, but to even become a favourite. Many men are unaware of basic escort etiquette but it really just comes down to being clean, generous and respectful. You don't have to strive to be the best she's ever had, you just have to relax and be yourself! Here are some tips that real escorts have shared to help you prepare for your next booking and a mutually enjoyable experience.
Keep It Clean
Cleanliness is such an underrated part of seeing an escort and yet it's the easiest to do! Showering and giving yourself a good wash (yes, with soap) is so simple, it deserves a place at the top of this list. The number one requirement to get into the good books is careful attention to your personal hygiene. Keep yourself clean before all visits. This means taking a shower just before you arrive, not 8 hours prior. Even if you showered in the morning, your meetings with an escort are intimate and close. Washing just before your appointment will guarantee a much more pleasant experience for your escort, and in return, for yourself as well. Cleanliness makes such a huge difference, and can be noticed immediately. You would expect her to show up clean, smelling nice and looking fantastic, so please take the time to do the same for yourself. Have fresh breath, especially where a GE (girlfriend experience) or deep kissing is requested. Brushing, flossing, using a good mouthwash and even having gum and mints on hand will ensure it's a pleasant experience. An often missed area that will set you apart is cleaning your hands and fingernails! When experiencing things hands-on, having clean hands and nails will really let her know how much thought you put into your appointments. You're interacting with a person and should be sure to be respectful of her and what will make her comfortable, as well as yourself. You don't get a second chance at making a first impression, so make sure it's a great one! Another consideration that's extremely important is to be sure to disclose potential or existing STDs or other relevant illnesses. If there are certain special requests you may need to make or accommodations based on special needs or disabilities, please let your escort know in advance. She would be happy to help and make sure that everything is planned, for example, accessibility suites, wheelchairs, mobility issues, and more. Escorts see men of all ages and varying degrees of mobility. Communicate what you need and don't surprise her. If you're feeling under the weather with something like a cold, flu or other illness, be sure to cancel or reschedule your appointment. She will understand, but be sure to cancel with as much advance notice as possible or ask if she can reschedule to when you're feeling better. Courtesy will go a long way and show that you care about her well-being and see more than just her occupation.
Be Polite (Even If You're Talking Dirty)
It can be easy to stick your foot in our mouth and ask a lot of intrusive, personal questions. Sometimes these can be credited to your nerves, so reading up on what not to say is a great way to prep before meeting. These women are professionals and at the end of the day, this is still a business. Don't talk down to her or her profession (you're paying to be there with her, after all!) and if you want to use sexually explicit language, communicate if that is/will be okay. Set up safe words, and if she declines your service requests respect her boundaries. Every escort is different and some may not be comfortable with certain services or language. This can be resolved by communicating clearly with your escort, especially during your initial booking. It's also crucial to be protected unless you've discussed otherwise, for example, OWO (oral without a condom). This contributes to not only cleanliness, but is also common sense. Know what you're booking and don't be afraid to discuss it! Don't schedule a GFE (girlfriend experience) when you're really looking for a PSE (pornstar experience). This can be awkward to resolve once you've arrived, particularly if the PSE is not something she offers. If you want some help deciphering some common escort slang check out our article HERE. Don't ask personal questions about her career unless she leads. Escorts will not answer personal questions about other clients, for their own privacy, so don't ask about them. You wouldn't want her talking about you to another one of her clients, right? Be considerate of her as a person. You will be treated well but if she feels more comfortable and respected, this will result in a much better experience for yourself as well. Be confident, not cocky. Be honest, not fake. Don't try too hard. You don't have to impress her, just be yourself and treat her nicely! Even though asking personal questions is frowned upon, treating her like a regular person. Extending common courtesy will go a long way. While it's not necessary to take time to make small talk or be personable, it will make a difference in the long run for her to feel like she's being treated a little more compassionately. Escorts offer intimate and personal services, and it's important to remember to treat them well to reflect how much you value their work. Gifts are always welcome! Gift cards, perfumes, or little tokens will help make a good impression. Many escorts have said that if you bring a little gift, smell good, act polite and stick to the allotted time, you'll be rewarded and appreciated. You can also always tip your escort! If you want to become an ideal client, a great way to do so is to show how much you appreciated her services, especially if you'd like to be a repeat visitor. A great way to help her and make her happy is to leave her a review on her profile. This will help others find her in the future and give her positive feedback to show prospective clients what a good job she does. It will help increase her likelihood of being booked by others too.
Don't Waste Her Time
Stick to your schedule! Arrive on time and depart promptly. This is so important, because you're paying her a fee based on time. If you show up late and chat her up don't ask for extra time later, unless she's available and you pay for extra hours.If you're nervous that's totally okay! First timers can be nervous and if you're starting to worry about your timing, just let her know how you feel. She's there for you and there's no need to fear rejection when your nerves get the best of you. Communicate your feelings and she will help put you at ease and work with you. On the other hand, if you're a time waster and chat her up, linger or avoid payment, don't expect to be a favorite. You also shouldn't be afraid to leave when you're done, even if you have a little bit time left. She won't be offended; however, don't haggle over prices or try to negotiate small differences. It's really bad form and shouldn't be discussed. Escorts have revealed that their favorite clients will often book a little extra time, instead of the minimum requirement, and take them out for drinks before hand to loosen up and chat (on the clock, of course). This is always really beneficial for the client and the escort to get comfortable with each other and make it feel a little less like a strict transaction. When booking, make sure you read her page thoroughly. Know what services she offers and what is off limits, and contact her appropriately as per her profile. Don't ask questions that are right on her profile or that you can easily google and find out for yourself. During your initial contact, be polite and don't patronize her. This isn't a chat room and you're not sliding into her DMs, she's a businesswoman and you're looking to book an appointment. Make sure you greet her kindly, ask any questions you may have that you couldn't locate on her page and answer any questions she might have for you. Common questions are about your name, age and profession, which are not always asked for their use but to be sure you can follow instructions. Oftentimes, pre-booking will help relieve some of her own stress as well. Nothing is more stressful than receiving a call for work an hour or so in advance. By pre-booking a few days in advance, minimum, escorts will have time to prepare comfortably, instead of rushing around. She will feel valued for her services which reflects in her work.
Respect Her Limits And Safety.
Escorts have their services listed on their profiles for a reason. When seeking out their services make sure that the woman you hire is the right fit for you and don't try to push her limits. Some escorts are firmly against not using protection or going Greek (anal) for their own comfort and safety. If the escort doesn't offer what you're looking for, keep searching for someone who offers it. If you screen her online, accept that she may need some information from you as well to ensure her safety. Let her know the answers to whatever she asks you before you book her. Many escorts are able to recognize a bad client in the first few messages or the first few minutes of a phone conversation and they try to weed out clients who may put their health and safety at risk, or possibly become violent. Unfortunately while it may not happen often, it is a concern. Being open, honest and communicating clearly during bookings will help the process go smoothly and put everyone at ease. Needless to say, your candor will make you recognizable as a great client. During your appointment, avoid awkwardness and pay her up front. Don't call it a payment or refer to it unless you have to. Generally you can leave the money in an unsealed envelope in a designated area where she can see it, like the bathroom counter or bedside table. You might choose to discuss this beforehand during the booking process to speed things up and avoid confusion and awkward lingering when your time is up. Payment is generally called the "gift", if you do need to refer to it. More is always welcome, but never less. Respecting her privacy outside of her business life is crucial. Don't ask if you can have her personal number or contact her outside of her paid hours with you. If you do happen to run into her in a public place and she wants to say hello, let her approach you, otherwise leave her alone. Her friends and family may not be aware of her occupation. She is not a friend, she is a business woman in a field that demands a high degree of privacy. Approaching her and calling her by her working name is a safety concern and crosses personal boundaries. Plus it can just be plain awkward! All it really takes to be a good client is to arrive on time, clean up nicely and be polite. If you want to be a great client, bring gifts, tip her well and book a little extra time to allow for some small talk, especially over drinks. You really get what you put into these appointments, so take the time to find out what she likes. Respect her privacy and safety and prepare to have an excellent time.
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