Do Normal Men Marry Escorts?

The Love Effect

The pros to marrying an escort

Normal men can marry escorts alright. It's no stretch of reality. Like with any other union, men expect (and get) a lot of benefits, including;

All that good sex, daily

What do you get when you marry a girl with some of the finest skills in the world? A taste of those skills. In his case, the skills in question are some the best in the world – sex skills – which makes the man one of the luckiest in the world. Escorts are known to be great in bed, thanks to weeks and weeks of accumulation of skills and tricks from and for their clients. They know how to make sex feel good and they always make it work. When a man marries an escort, he expects that he will receive part of that grand prize for himself. Imagine a life where you get the best sex of your life every day with the most beautiful woman you know who also happens to be your wife. How perfect. In the ideal setting, they would have sex as much as possible and not be scared about it. It would be so good that he would never have to visit an escort himself.

All that good company, daily

Escorts are not all about sex. Of course, they deal in company and sex is just part of that. Their kind of company is so good that men from far away lands will come to ask for it. They will also pay hundreds of thousands of pounds for it. Escorts provide company by hanging out with an individual, posing as their girlfriend, making them feel better about themselves, listening to their jokes and of course, sex. It's a perfect combination of things. Imagine that perfect combination given to you on a daily basis – any – man would find the prospect appealing. Not many women can qualify as able to give good company in today's attention-short era. Any beautiful woman that can listen to you after a long hard day and make you feel happy about yourself is a find, whether she is a teacher or an escort. Marriage is all about the company, so why pass up a promising company?

A higher level of trust between man and wife

There's always a lot more trust between a couple that has known each other for longer. When the couple knows the possible worst details about each other, details that would best be kept secret. Such is the kind of trust that develops when a man marries an escort after knowing her line of business and what it entails. There's no 'why didn't you tell me before?' moment in the future, and everyone sets out knowing what the truth of the matter is. It also applies to the man in the relationship, seeing as he's required to reveal his own inner demons to balance out his future wife's sordid revelations of her past. Because of having this knowledge of each other's most intimate affairs, there comes a uniquely deep understanding between the couple and a certain strong trust grows between them, the kind that later parachutes them through the struggles of marriage for tens of years.

More frank discussions regarding sex in a marriage

When one partner has a background in sex or sex work, they become an asset to the relationship in hundreds of little ways. In one major way, they help direct the discussion on sex in the marriage because they find it easier. Having an escort as his wife allows any man to have frank discussions about sex and its role in the marriage. There's no beating about the bush in this union. If a relationship lacks sex, the happy couple can always decide on an open marriage or regular threesomes to brighten things up rather than arguing about and seeking separation immediately. Those are the kind of solutions the average couple might come up with, especially if none of the partners has a free relationship with sex. In a union with an escort, there are honest discussions about how to make sex better and exchange of ideas about what's working and what's not. That's promising stuff for any man looking wed.

All that love

The cons to marrying an escort

Much as marrying an escort is easy in this era and can result in a happy, sex-filled marriage, there are lots of downsides that either partner needs to know before going ahead with the plan.

Issues tend to arise when the escort asks to keep her job

A marriage between an escort and a 'normal' man can happen alright, and it can be blissful. Until the issue of the escorting comes up, that is. Almost always, any man that marries a sex worker forces her to drop her trade and stay home or try something else. It always works in cases where the woman felt trapped in her career as an escort. But when she doesn't, when she loves her job and wants to continue doing it, trouble is bound to arise. Men don't enjoy sharing their women with other men, so if the woman wants to keep escorting, breaking up becomes inevitable. A union only survives in this situation if the husband in question is also in the sex trade. But his job automatically disqualifies him from the 'normal man' bracket. At the end of the day, no amount of good, skilled, regular sex can save the marriage.

A bit of patronising tends to happen from the guy

Patronising has always been a huge turn off for escorts. Almost everyone seems to think they are in a position to judge, advise and save escorts from their 'situation'. When patronising is done by a life partner such as a husband, it stings differently. It stings deeper. But it's never done at the start. During courtship, the husband-to-be may or may not know about his future wife's unusual job. If he knows about it, he might say it doesn't bother him. He might never mention it. If he doesn't know about it, he might be shocked to learn of it, but then he will let his feelings for her carry him to a place of understanding. If she continues with the career as they embark on married life together, all that politeness the man breathed early on will melt. He will become unnecessarily patronising, partly because he wants her to stop. That always kills the relationship unless someone offers to sacrifice.

Judgment from family and friends of the guy

This is unavoidable. Escorts and other sex workers have always been singled out for ridicule and disrespect when they try to enjoy everyday aspects of living. Even in marriage, it's unavoidable. Any escort that marries a 'normal' man can expect regular, unmitigated hatred and judgment from the man's family and his friends for the entire duration of their marriage. People find it hard to respect anyone with a history as an active sex worker. They deem her dirty and unclean and low class. Conservative and highly religious families tend to do this. Sometimes, the man will stand against his family in favour of his wife. But the evidence is hard to beat. If you've been an escort before, they'll always use it against you. And if you continue practising in your trade while you're married, no one will speak to you. It's best to avoid marriage to a normal guy if you want to avoid drama.

The issue of former clients resurfacing in an escort's life

Any newly married woman has a lot to worry about, but even more so if she was once or still is an escort. One major worry always comes to life when some of her old clients bump into her and her husband. Even if she has moved on, this is bound to cause some awkwardness. Everyone knows that escorts offer mostly sex so finding an online client will distress the husband too. If she is still practising as an escort while married, then it becomes even more awkward. Some clients might not know that you got married and will send you messages in the middle of the night asking to see you again. The husband might assume you're having an affair. This is how marriages break up.

Mistrust issues against the escort might appear

It's hard to trust a wife completely if part of her job is to sleep with other men. That's the scenario men find themselves in when they marry escorts. In some cases, the woman stops being an escort, and then the mistrust remains only about her previous career. But in the case that she continues her career as her marriage kicks off, the man eventually becomes uncertain about her career. Is she sleeping with some of the men because she loves them? Does she even love him at all? Is it really always about sex only when dealing with her? Even the smallest suggestions of cheating can be grown into mountains of situations, such as when she receives a present from a client or when a client calls unexpectedly. It can get ugly.

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