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How To Avoid OWO

How To Avoid OWO OWO is something that escort may sometimes want to avoid, EscortRankings has some tips and tricks on how to do this while keeping clients happy and content. There are a bunch of reasons to want to avoid doing a blow job or other

How To Avoid OWO

How To Avoid OWO
How To Avoid OWO
OWO is something that escort may sometimes want to avoid, EscortRankings has some tips and tricks on how to do this while keeping clients happy and content. There are a bunch of reasons to want to avoid doing a blow job or other oral activities without protection and they all come down to a personal choice. While advertising that you offer OWO as an option, it may come down to the moment where you would prefer not to. Oral sex is something many appreciate greatly and is something that most people prefer receiving without protection due to sensitivity and general enjoyment. That does not mean that it should always be on the table and that any escort should feel forced to offer it. Here we have gathered information on why someone would want to avoid it and how to avoid it. There are many ways around the issue and it should always come down to the consent of both parties involved.

Reasons To Avoid OWO

There are just about as many reasons to want to avoid OWO as there are situations in which you can find yourself. There are however main reasons which we will go into here. Knowing the reason why you are not wanting to give oral without protection and being able to explain it are two things of high importance. Being able to explain these to a client can help the understanding from their part and help keep them happy with your work with them and what they are paying for. You are just not in the mood. This is one that is harder to explain but the mood is always important and should be followed. You may have a cold that is blocking your breathing and you need your mouth to breath and won't be able to properly offer any kind of oral, much less oral without protection. This is one where depending on how you feel in general, a reschedule may be in order as being able to offer your services while feeling healthy is something that is very important. You may have a cut in your mouth and this heightens the risk factors of OWO. This is something where it's for your safety and your client's safety. Explain to them that you have a cut or any other issue and work from there. Don't make it sound like it's something they may catch, it's a cut, it happens to everyone. You may want to use the fact that it's painful more than the fact that it's a risk factor here. Make it about something simple, let them feel like they are helping you by not receiving OWO. Recent dental work can come into play. Some people have a harder time with dental work with pain persisting a few days after and even having had their jaw dislocated. This makes everything from eating to talking to oral in general feel painful. Explain this to your client and they should be understanding. This can also be related the above of having a cut. It's opens you up to health risk factors, but it's easier to explain away with the dental work. You are unsure of your client, which means you are unsure if you might just catch something from them if you do oral without protection. Try offering oral with protection or see if there is something else you might guide them to so to avoid OWO and still keep them satisfy. Here, it's about health and self-protection. You cannot risk getting yourself sick or getting to a place where you can't offer services at all to anyone. Reasons for not offering OWO in the moment are so varied, listing them all here would take a very long time. Each escort has her reasons when it comes to not offering it or to removing it from the offered services with certain clients. Each escort is allowed to establish her own offerings and what she is ready to do with each client. Each client can also remove items from what they wanted to get from an escort and they may not be comfortable with OWO themselves. If that is the case, it makes removing it from your offerings a lot easier and you can both move onto something else you both love and want to do together.

When To Avoid and When To Offer OWO

Avoiding or choosing to give OWO is something very personal and even if it's on the list of services offered, it can be something that can change from client to client, wanting to take the option and decide on it once with a client. It can be done with mood or with feeling, following a gut feeling and going for it with it feels right and not when it doesn't. It's an odd decision to make at times, but when unsure, it's always better to err on the side of safety and not do it. You would not want to get or give anything from and to anyone. You want to be safe no matter what. The decision can come down to the very last second and it can change at any time, just like consent. This means that you have to be sure of yourself, confident, and communicative. It can also means switching things up last minute and offering something you had not offered a client before when you realize you are uncomfortable giving them OWO.

How To Bring This Up To Clients

How To Bring This Up To Clients
How To Bring This Up To Clients
Once you figure out you are not comfortable giving OWO to a specific client, you have to figure out how to bring this up to them. This will come down ultimately to how good communication is with this specific client. If this is a regular, it should be fairly simple and you should be able to be honest with them about your not wanting or feeling like giving OWO. You should be able to discuss it with them or just bring it up. This will of course depend on each client and their temperament. You will be the one who knows best with regulars and approach them as is best with each of them. Regulars tend to care more about their girls and they should be more understanding and easier to approach. That being said, they may have a hard time understanding why something they always get is not on the table that day. Have a good conversation with them and see what you can offer as an alternative. Other clients, less regular ones or one-off type of clients, may be a bit more difficult to communicate with. These will require a bit more tact and the white glove treatment here if you decide to let them know. Communication and how things are approached will be keys here. You may also choose to just not discuss it and work on them to move them to something else. There are a lot of tricks for how to do this. If you decide to just tell them that OWO is not an option at that time or you would prefer not to do it, you will have to be very clear and may face some backlash on this. This means you have to be confident and firm in your conversation and not let them talk you into it so that you do not have regrets. In general, how you approach the subject is the most important thing. It should be approached with respect for your client who may have booked you exactly because you offer OWO which can make it harder for them to accept that it's not something you are able to do in the moment. This is where how to you talk to them is really important. You will need to brace for them being unhappy and for a unsatisfied client. You may want to explain or keep it simple, this will be up to you. You will need to communicate well if you choose to discuss it. Other options are available as well, other than telling them.

Tips And Tricks

There are other ways to remove oral without protection from your services with a client or on a date with a regular without necessarily discussing it at length or discussing it at all. These will wary by escort and what they are comfortable with as well as with each client. Everyone is indeed completely different. Simple tricks often work the best and are easiest to apply in just about any situation. Deflect and redirect: So OWO has come up and you are not feeling it for an array of reasons and you are not feeling that discussion either. The easiest way is to deflect my moving the attention of your client to something else. Perhaps breasts are something they enjoy so get their attention there. Perhaps kiss them full on if that is something you are comfortable with. Move away from the act and redirect their attention to something else, something they enjoy greatly. Switch to something else: Kind of like redirect but without actually making them forget about the OWO fully. Offer something else by telling them something like "know what would be really fun..." Go with sex between the breasts commonly referred to as a titjob. Get that hard-on somewhere else that they are not used to. Dealing with a foot fetishist? Use your feet. A client with a love for your eyes? Look them directly in theirs as you move to put a condom on them. Work with what they love and switch over. Offer something new: Don't deflect, redirect, or switch, but also don't say you are not comfortable if you don't want to. Here you can offer something new, something they've never done with you. Do you offer A Levels? Perhaps offer that up when the OWO comes up and see where it leads you. Be ready for them to say no however and to have to go to one of the other tricks above. Tricks can work at times and not at others, picking the right thing to go to is something that can take some getting used to. Talking to your client and clear communication are the best ways to go, but sometimes, tricks can help. The best way for most escorts and clients would be a mix of both communication and trick. See what works for your client and work from there.

Compensating, But Not Overcompensating

Compensating, But Not Overcompensating
Compensating, But Not Overcompensating
This is something that comes with each of the tricks above. Do not go overboard as your client will feel like something is up. If you are compensating with something else for not offering OWO, you want to measure that offer carefully. Some clients will love the replacement, some won't, but do not feel obligated to go crazy above what you normally offer. Offer something you consider equivalent or just a bit above. Don't overdo it, at least unless it's something you feel strongly about. Overcompensation can lead to overexpectation on your next appointment with this specific client and while you want to keep them happy, you do not want to create a future let down. Make sure you know what you are getting into with the compensation and go from there. Each situation will be different, so make sure you adjust accordingly. Offering OWO is something that carries some risk, understanding this and understand how to remove it from the options when you need to are both things that come with the territory of being an escort. Know what you are offering, know what you are ready to do, and be comfortable with potential changes. Going in with a clear mind and being confident will help you when changes need to be done and the unexpected happens. Learn to adapt and you will soon become a local favorite for your regulars and others.

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