How To Last Long While Having Sex With An Escort

How To Last Long With An Escort

Research

You might think that there isn't much to research as what you want is to be able to last long, but trust us and go take a gander at the wealth of information available online, in books, in magazines, etc. Check out all the information even if just at a glance. A website like EscortRankings can be a great place to start and a quick search on your search engine of choice should give you a ton of information. While you may not think they could help, don't forget to check out websites and magazines aimed at the ladies as they often publish articles and tips for ladies to help their men last longer. You can take the advice and apply it. These can also help you see what women really think is the best way to please and the desired length of time to last in the bedroom. This is a great place to learn for all to figure out what they want from a man in the bedroom.

Plan On Your Date And Prep

First and foremost, you should prepare for the date. Make sure you are well-rested and relaxed before your date. Being tired or stressed can put a damper on things and take some of your self-control away. Make sure you know when your date will be and what you plan on doing on that date so that you can get everything in order in advance as well as give yourself time for perhaps a nap or a bit of self-care time to release some stress. Of course, a date with an escort can be set to help release tension and stress, but you do want to have a good amount of positive energy and be in good shape so that you can really enjoy your time with her, even if she is going to be doing most of the work. Sex and other related activities are way more fun when you are already feeling good and are not too stressed.

There are some more, not drastic, but physical options for preparing for your date with an escort. This involves masturbating before the date to make sure you don't finish a bit too early. Many men can last a lot longer on the second go, so getting the first one out of the way before you get there can be really helpful in helping you last longer. Also, letting your escort know that you want to last long is a great way to prepare for it. If she knows what helps you last longer and what makes you cum too soon, she can adjust her work and do what helps you last longer. Remember that your escort of choice is a professional and she knows what she is doing. Trust her and let her help you reach your goal. She may greatly enjoy doing this and will surely appreciate your open communication.

Set Your Boundaries

When planning, decide what your boundaries are. As you are trying to last long, put things that make you go faster in the no-no category and communicate these to your escort. For example, if the lady on top is a surefire way of getting you off in no time, tell her that you do not want this. If a mind-blowing blow job will get you at the edge before you even get to the main event, avoid it. Things that get you lasting longer should also be discussed so that she knows what she can do with you in this area as well. Work on your appointment ahead of time and set up your boundaries and your rules, making sure to communicate this very well with your date so that she knows what to do and can prepare on her own side as well. Of course, if you have non-negotiables, please do make sure to be clear about that. If you cannot work with any kind of prostate massage or if feet gross you out, discuss it with her. Here, the point is to make you last, not make you soft. Making sure you stay hard and can have a performance you are happy with is something any escort will be happy with too.

Ask For Assistance

Do Not Hesitate To Use Medical Assistance

Another form of assistance you can get to achieve and maintain an erection for an extended period of time is medical assistance. There are many options out there that are fairly simple to obtain with the help of your general practitioner. We've all heard of the purple pill and a whole lot of alternative options. What is important here is to go through a legit way of getting this assistance as this is not something you can just pick up randomly. You need to make sure you are healthy enough to be taking one of these pills. Once cleared by your doctor, talk to them and explain what you are trying to achieve. Be honest with the doctor and explain that you are trying to last longer.

They may have you try a few things before going with medication such as pumps, exercises, and a whole lot more. They will want to help you, but will also need to make sure that whatever you do does not affect your health. When you meet with your doctor about this, as previously said, you need to be honest with them, but you do not need to say this is for a date with an escort, you can easily just say that you have a big date coming up or that your girl would like you to last longer or be harder. However, be honest about all health issues, your goals, and any worry you might have about their suggestions. You should also let them know if you've had problems related to this before and everything you've tried.

It may be a bit uncomfortable, but they are medical professional and should be understanding and non-judgmental. Call your doctor's office and get an appointment, see them, and decide after the consultation if this is for you. Even if you get a prescription, there is nothing that obliges you to use it. It's a good back up if you find yourself ending too soon or just not being as performant as you would hope.

Accessories

Somewhat related to the item above are accessories. It's entirely possible that your doctor may suggest these before going the prescription medication route. This is something you can shop for on your own online without anyone knowing what you are shopping for except for some stranger packing your order in a warehouse. This is a great way to keep things very discreet and not worry about what others will think. You should do extensive research online to know what you are getting into. These kinds of items usually cannot be returned unless still sealed for obvious safety reasons.

With all the research, you may also find other items you would never have thought of. Alternatively, you can go directly to a sex shop and see that the offerings to help men out are much more varied than just cockrings and buttplugs. While these can be great and a lot of fun, there is a plethora of options there and you can easily browse them. Seeing these things in person can help you understand them and choose the best one for you. Do not worry, the people working in these stores are all very discreet and you will not have to worry about them revealing something about you to anyone. The advantage to a store with a clerk over the internet is that if you have any question or need any assistance, it is easier than with online stores. There is still something to be said for having human interaction and in-person assistance. Your shopping in a sex shop may also inspire you to get a few toys or an outfit for your date if she is so inclined.

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