Should I Stay Over At My Client's House?

Should I Stay Over At My Client's House?

This applies to escorts who do outcalls mostly as incall escorts don't really go to their client's house and they make it very clear what services they offer and where. For escorts who do outcalls and offer overnight service, spending the night at a client's house will come up at some point. At that point, you will need to set your own boundaries about spending the night at a client's house. Many escorts offer a variety of options with this such as overnight at home, hotels, client's homes, vacations, extended dates, etc.

Determining your preference(s) is something that is personal and needs to be considered carefully. Your comfort is one thing that needs to be considered but you also need to look at the safety of the location you are going to be spending the night at, then the pricing and what it can include. There are, of course, other considerations as to who the client is and what they have requested in terms of services.

Things to Consider

As mentioned above, there are many things to consider when it comes to spending the night at your client's house. First and foremost is safety. You have to decide if it's safe to stay the night and if you will feel safe at their homes. A date at a client's home is one thing- it has a shorter time period and is easier to get out of if you feel unsafe at any point during the date. An overnight date may start to feel unsafe later into the night and you may not be able to leave as easily due to transportation, location, or simply the client themselves.

This is of the highest importance when it comes to your safety and your comfort. When in doubt, do not book an overnight date or leave early enough to make it back before public transport and other options run out completely and you cannot get home yourself. Spending the night also depends on your level of comfort with not spending the night at home. While you may offer outcalls for shorter dates, you may select to not offer it for a longer or overnight date. This is up to you to decide before setting your services or when a client makes a request. This can vary from client to client.

Regulars Versus New Clients

When your comfort and safety dictate whether you will spend the night, the type of client you are seeing for the overnight date may help you decide whether to stay the night or not. The different levels of familiarity with different clients will influence this decision. Once you figure this out, it may very well be something that is off the table for most clients, but that with regulars is a case by case basis.

A regular client can become someone you know and trust. After a lot of dates or perhaps an overnight date or two at your place, you feel comfortable and safe with them to spend the night at their place. This may not be something you want to advertise so keep the decision to yourself and decide on a case-by-case basis. You may even want to not advertise any overnights or just incall overnights and then offer it to your best regulars or the regulars you trust the most. This is something that becomes a judgment call for each client you have, but thankfully, if you do not offer overnight dates or do not offer overnight dates outside of your place, you can easily point them to your services offered and leave it at that. The fact that discretion is part of the job, you can usually also expect it from your clients. This means that those who were given overnight services at their own places will most likely not want to share that information, especially if you have asked them not to. This means that your secret will be safe with them.

Another good thing about doing this for regulars only, you may be able to charge a bit more for overnights as outcalls than you are for long dates or overnight as incalls. This can lead to a great relationship with a client or a few who will become your main source for income and also a good way to get stability in your career and life. These regulars are to be cherished and seeing them at their places can really show them that you care for them and value them.

Considerations For Female Clients And Couples

How to Suggest a Hotel Room Instead of Their House

If you don't really feel like spending the night at your client's house and still want to offer them an overnight date as an outcall, you can easily suggest a hotel. The biggest advantage to a hotel is that it really is a more neutral location where both you and your client feel safer using a hotel as a location. Hotels also have security and cameras while keeping discretion as a very important value for their clients.

This means that discretion is something that will not be put at risk and you will have a group of staffers on the location that can help if things go sideways or if you do not feel safe in any way. With a hotel, even if you are a bit further away from home and do not feel like staying the night but it's too late to head back to your place, you can (if they are not sold out) get a room of your own. This would add further costs to you, but sometimes, safety has to come before money. The best way to offer a hotel to a client is to bring up the positives for them that spending the night there can bring.

You can start with the fact that you only do overnight dates at hotels. If this is not enough, you can bring up the fact of safety for them as you will not know where they live. Then, if they are a married client, well it should be an easy sell as they will not risk their wife catching them. Other than these, you can also bring up the extra services offered at hotels like a restaurant on-site, massages and spas, room service, being able to drink in bed, not needing to leave the bed in the morning for breakfast, etc. There are so many advantages, it's an easy sell, so get honest and creative in how you sell the place to them. Also, do not forget the discretion aspect and how if they are not completely satisfied with you, they can just get you your own room and you will disappear into the night. A little luxury is something that should not be that hard to sell to a client when they are already spending hundreds on your time with them. Get them thinking of it as something fun and something they've always wanted to do.

Something they've perhaps seen in movies. Explain how you can both make the most it all while you are at the hotel including a giant bed, fresh sheets you don't have to change yourself, no cleanup, a large bathroom with a shower that can be used to their advantage. There is so much good with a hotel room that the one-night mini-vacation should be on their minds really quickly and be something they want to do.

Vacation And Travel

If this is something you are comfortable with and want to offer, you can advertise it on your offerings and services or you can bring it up just to a few clients you fully trust. This can be a great way to get a nice vacation somewhere fancy all expenses paid or just a quick weekend getaway without having to spend a penny and even make money while you are away. For regulars, this is something they may very well have thought of while away without you or while daydreaming about vacation. They may even bring it up themselves. If not, bring it up if you are comfortable with it and see where it goes.

It can just be part of a conversation about ideas of what else you two can do together. It's fairly easy to talk about and with a good regular, you can even offer them a discounted rate once they pay for the entirety of the expenses for you. This is a great way to offer them overnight dates without having to do them at your place or theirs and also keep discretion to a maximum as you will not be in your town where anyone could know either of you. There are many advantages of this kind of overnight date with clients you feel comfortable and safe with. In the end, it all comes down to what you want to do, what you want to offer, and what you are comfortable with. You are never obligated to offer overnight services and much less obligated to do them as outcalls to the client's home. Also to be considered is your client's comfort and safety. If they ask about overnight dates at their house, they may not be comfortable having them at your place but may just want a bit more time, some cuddling, and a good night's sleep with you. See the many options above and go from there with them.

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