Safety
How To Be Safe With Escorts
How To Be Safe With Escorts When it comes to being with an escort, the safety measures that you should be taking are not that much different than any other casual encounter. Generally speaking, escorts keep their own sexual health in check so there's not
How To Be Safe With Escorts
Use Protection
The most obvious way to keep safe when it comes to being with escorts is by using condoms. As mentioned above, this is a measure that you should take with anyone that you are having casual sex with. Don't always rely on the escort to have condoms on hand for you to use, and come prepared with a set of your own just in case. In some instances, the escort may have her own condoms for her own safety, but don't always depend on that to be the default. This is important not only to protect against STIs but of course, unwanted pregnancy. If you're not ready, be sure to keep these things in mind. Granted, unprotected sex feels amazing, but it is ultimately not worth the headache of either of those two aforementioned problems, so just keep that in mind the entire time. Come prepared with enough to last for the amount of time you have your escort booked for. An all night romp might need a bit more in terms of condoms on hand, whereas you might only need 1 to three for a one hour fling.Book a Neutral Spot
Many escorts do incalls and outcalls, and while some might not feel comfortable bringing you into their home, you can also exercise the same amount of caution. The best solution to that problem is by booking a neutral spot like a hotel or motel so that you can enjoy your time alone but also not have to worry about being in anyone's personal space. This is a good way to keep it neutral and not have to worry about anything going missing or anything like that. It's always great to choose a well-known hotel in a well-lit area so that you know you aren't going into some forgotten place. It's always a good thing to have that option available, so factor that cost into the cost of your escort from the very beginning so that it's less of a shock. It's very important to do that. Most big cities have a plethora of great hotels that you can book and not have to worry about going to anyone's particular house. It's always great to do it that way in the long run until you may become a bit more comfortable with a particular escort.Only Bring the Cash You Owe Her
Another thing to think about is money when it comes to keeping safe with an escort. Again, this is something you should consider in any casual sex encounter. If you're the type to normally walk around with multiple, big wads of cash, maybe skip that for your next escort encounter. Only bring as much as you own her for her service, as well as a nice tip, and you will probably feel a lot better about the whole thing. It's going to be much better this way rather than the possibility of falling asleep after a particular rowdy session and waking up to find that all your money is gone. Think hard about where you plan to meet up, and go from there. In cases like these, it's always better to be safe than sorry so even if you have to go somewhere else for the day where you might need cash, it's always better to just bring the bare minimum amount that you need for the escort so that you don't regret it later on down the line.Tell Someone Where You Are
It might not be your first instinct, but you're better off telling someone else where you are during your romp, even if you don't want to reveal who you might be with or what you're doing. There has to be at least one trusted person that you know you can tell where you're headed so that in the event you need to get out of there quickly, you will be able to. It's always a nice thing to know that you have that option on hand. Be honest about where you're going to be so that in the event that something happens, you will be able to ask for help quickly and easily.Tell Someone Who You're With
If You Book a Hotel, Make Sure to Use a Credit Card
If you choose the option of booking a hotel or motel, always be sure to book or hold the room using a credit card that can be traced back to you. This might be tricky if you're not supposed to be doing that, but it's something that can ultimately keep you safe. It leaves a paper trail in the event that something happens to you. It will let people know that you're there and that you might need help or something to that effect. Considering it as a way to mark "I was here" in a particular place without having to do much of anything at all. It's always a nice way to maintain a bit of safety when you're booking a hotel. No matter where you go in the city, you might end up having to book a place far from where you live for a bit of privacy, so some kind of proof that you were there will be imperative, for sure. Keep things like that in mind and be sure to leave a credit card on file for your own safety.Be Nice
Another important thing to consider about staying safe is to simply be nice. It seems pretty straight forward and maybe even a little bit vague, but it's something that you should consider in terms of keeping you safe. You never know how people will react to being treated poorly, so aside from it just being a kind thing to do, thing about how it might impact your safety to act in another way. Be caring, be considerate and overall just be courteous. At the end of the day, an escort is providing you with a service, so being able to appreciate that will be an important part of your whole experience. It's always nice to have that in mind for the next time that you might meet up with an escort. More than anything, think about how it might feel to be on the other side of that exchange and think of ways that you can in turn make the escort feel safe as well. It's not always easy to do, but it's something that can make the whole experience better for all parties involved. So, when in doubt, just be nice.Be Alert
It's always going to be important for you to pay attention to the things that are going on around you. It isn't always easy considering all of the things that are going on all around you, on top of you, under you and all that fun stuff but it's always important to be aware of your surroundings. You never know when there might be a change in what's going on that might end up being detrimental to you. It's always nice to have those things under control and have a good idea of what's going on so that you don't have any surprises. Like much of this list, this is something you should be doing in any casual experience, particularly your first time being with someone. Whether you go to an escort's house or end up going to a neutral space, you never know what can transpire while you're there or immediately afterwards, so just be on alert for things that might not seem to be in place or make sense. There are so many things to consider and it can be tricky to do that when you've just finished having a great time, but they are things that can end up saving you in the long run.Stay Away From Too Much Drugs & Alcohol
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