Never Feel Unsafe With Your Client

What To Do If A Client Makes You Feel Unsafe?

Step 1: Identify Why The Situation Is Making You Feel Uneasy

Once a client beings to make you feel unsafe in any way (it makes no difference whether it is physical or verbal behavior), the first step you should take is to identify all of the factors of the situation in order to gauge the level of personal safety. If a client isn't making you feel comfortable while you are working, here are three things you should ask yourself.

Is Your Client Angry?

You might feel uneasy and unsafe if your client is angry. If your client is angry, it's possible it may have nothing to do with you - they may have just had a bad day at work, or a fight with their spouse (we are only human after all). A client being angry could have nothing to do with your performance after all.

Is Your Client Not Following The Rules?

It is possible that your client could be acting completely normal and jovial, but for some reason they are not following the rules of engagement with an escort. If this is happening, remind the client of your rules and limits - this may be all that's needed to turn your uneasy night back into a fun and sexy romp.

Is Your Client Inebriated?

This may seem like a no-brainer, but if your client is inebriated, the chances of reasoning with them drops significantly. If they are angry and intoxicated this drops even further, and you should take more precautions.

Step 2: De-Escalate The Situation

Try To Change The Topic

If you find yourself feeling unsafe because your client seems upset, try changing the topic. Maybe they are not emotionally ready to see you, and they are the type of person who thinks jumping into bed with an escort can solve their problems but being with an escort is only reminding them why they're upset. Try changing the topic and getting them to calm down first. Once they've calmed down you can circle back around and ask them why they were so upset.

Try To Identify When The Issue Occurred

If your client is able to tell you why they are upset, the next step is to identify when the issue occurred. Did it begin before you had your appointment, or did it start after you met? If the situation started after you met with your client and continued to escalate, then there is a very real possibility that your client could be directing that negative energy toward you. If that is the case, you will most likely need to take further precautions in order to ensure the unsafe feeling you have doesn't materialize physically.

Step 3: If You Feel You Need To, Leave The Room

It's agreed that you should never need to feel unsafe when you are with a client, so in the situation that you find yourself unable to deescalate an unsafe situation, Escort Rankings recommends that any escort should leave and move to a safer location. Due to the nature of the profession, escorts usually find themselves working in an array of locations, each with their own proclivities.

Are You Meeting Your Client At A Hotel?

It is very common for clients to hook up with sexy escorts at hotels all over the world. With that in mind, it would be wise for any escort to stake out the hotel room before the client arrives. Identify all safe areas in the room, and be sure to test the lock on the bathroom door. If the client is booking the room for you, scope out the room before you begin engaging with them sexually. As well, ensure that the door to the hotel room remains unlocked. These days, almost all hotel rooms are locked electronically, so there is literally no need to deadbolt the door from the inside. If the situation escalates in an extreme direction, quickly find your way to the safe area (usually the bathroom) and lock the door. Once safe, do not hesitate to call either your personal security, or the concierge (believe us - they will want to resolve the situation as quickly quietly as possible).

Are You Meeting At Your Client's Residence?

Being proactive about your personal safety should only increase if you decide to meet a client at their personal residence. As always, your first step should be asking to use the washroom and identifying safe areas. If your client begins making you feel unsafe and you are unable to deescalate their behavior, do your best to keep the client talking as much as possible while you decide the best way to leave. If you can figure out an excuse to leave, make your way to the hotel's pre-designated safe area (once again, usually the washroom). Once inside, either call your personal security, or call the police. Do not threaten your client with calling the police - just call them. Threatening to call the police may escalate the situation. Also, if you arrive at your client's place to find an extra person at their residence, immediately ask them for an explanation. If this explanation is unclear or unsatisfactory, leave the premises post-haste.

Are You Meeting Your Client At Your Personal Residence?

If you are meeting your client in your personal residence (or your 'work' apartment), have a safe room already figured out beforehand. Additionally, it is never a bad idea to have defensive tools hidden throughout your place of business. Believe us, at EscortRankings.uk we know that escorts discussing personal safety might not sound sexy, but it's important. We want to make sure you know what to do when your client makes you feel unsafe. But the best way to protect yourself is to take a pre-preemptive stance on safety - which leads us to our next step.

Step 5: Take A Preemptive Stance To Personal Safety

Don't Partake In Party Favors

The number one thing any escort can do to ensure they're at their peak safety is to stay sober while working. Party favors can be a lot of fun in the bedroom, but it's always best to have a sober mind in case any uneasy situation rears its head.

Only Work When You're Feeling Well Enough

Just like any other job, you need to give yourself a few sick days. If you're not feeling well enough to work, don't work. You won't be performing at your best (or thinking at your best), and chances are your client will feel it as well.

Have All Of Your Prices Fixed

Whether you're with an agency or you have a personal website advertising your services, make sure all of your services are priced accordingly, and stick to it. The last thing you want is for a client to incur costs they weren't aware of. Not only is that bad business, it can also be physically reckless.

Talk To Client Before Meeting

It doesn't matter if they're a trusted client you've worked with for years, or a brand new client, have them call you or face-time at least 20-30 minutes before your scheduled time to gauge their mood and ensure they are sober. You can always cancel an appointment if you have unsure feelings.

Rent A "Work" Apartment

If you have the financial ability, rent an apartment/condo that you can uses specifically for work. With a dedicated work location, you can equip it with cameras, locks, etc. and take your personal security to another level.

Invest In Personal Security

As well, it is a good idea to invest in personal security as soon as you can (if possible). The hourly rate of security personnel is well below standard rates for escort services, and its a work expense that will give you incredible piece of mind. If you are represented by an escort agency, it is possible that they may have personal security options as well.

Keep Your Phone Close

Always keep your phone near you when with a client, and have either a friend or a personal security officer on speed dial. Another tip is to make sure your phone does not have its security lock turned on when with a client, and never turn it off (or leave it on silent).

Research An Agency Before You Join

If you are interested in being represented by an escort agency, be sure to research the company online before you sign up with them. See what other clients and escorts say about them. And don't be afraid to ask what they will provide for their percentage (security, an 'office', transportation, etc.).

Strengthen Your Voice To Make Sex Work Even Safer

Sex work can be fun. It can be exciting. It can be sensual. And it can be rewarding. But it can also be rather risky. Which is one of the reasons why we started Escort Rankings - we wanted to build an online resource for both clients and escorts to engage in the safest and fulfilling practices possible. Now more than ever the public at large has realized the necessity of sex work in society, and understand not only the hardships most sex workers face on a daily basis, but also the needless shame imposed on their clients. It's clear that we need to move forward to make sex work safer for everyone. Vice actually has a very informative and inspiring article on the matter titled How To Make Sex Work Safer, which goes in depth on different behaviors and practices that could alleviate many of the obstacles sex workers face on the job. Not only that, it also details various organizations in North America that are lobbying for new legislation to help support escorts, prostitutes, erotic dancers, and other sex workers. If this is something that you think you might be interested in supporting, we at EscortRankings.uk encourage you to read the article.

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