Top Safety Tips For Meeting A New Client

Top Safety Tips For Meeting A New Client

Keep Personal Details To Yourself

This is a rule that shouldn't just be used for meeting a potential client for the first time, but should more or less be used throughout your career as an escort - refrain from giving out personal information to any client. It doesn't matter if you're just meeting them or if they've been with you for years, don't give out any details surrounding your personal life. Not only do we recommend not telling your client facts about your private life, we also suggest that you don't even give them your real name. In fact, it's pretty much an unspoken rule that escorts create a stage name for themselves (more on that below). As another tactic, we suggest to keep your personal life to yourself, don't work too close to home. We recommend that you hold any evening meet-ups at least 10 miles from where you reside. The last thing you want is to bump into one of your clients in the grocery aisle and have them ask to walk you home; not only is it awkward, it could also be an impediment to your safety.

Don't Give Out Your Phone Number

You should never give a new client your real phone number. Beyond that, you should never give out your real phone number to any client - even if they're a regular and you think they're really nice. A great investment in your safety is to purchase a secondary phone which you can use exclusively for escorting. If that's a little out of your price range, there are cost-effective web-based answering services and digital voice numbers you could sign up for too!

Create A Work Persona

Using a stage name and creating an escort persona for yourself isn't only one of the top safety tips for meeting a new client, it's also something that can make escorting more exciting and fun. Firstly, your persona shouldn't contain any real-world details - everything should be a creation of your imagination. And don't be too concerned about not telling the truth - the entire escort/client relationship is built on illusion! Nobody is going to get their feelings hurt if they find out your name isn't really Sinderella. And as a fortunate side effect of creating a new identity for yourself, you might find that you enjoy escorting even more. By creating a new identity, you'll be able explore the darkest and dirtiest corners of your sexuality through escorting - something you might be too ashamed to do if you used your real name. Which is why we recommend using a stage name - not only is it safer, it's sexier.

Get To Know Your Client Beforehand

Do whatever you can to try to learn as much about your client as possible before your meeting. Ask to call or text them back from the number from which they initially called you to make sure they aren't using a phone service with a blocked number. Don't hesitate to ask your potential client for their real name as well as some basic details about their life (what they do, where they live, hobbies, etc.), and if they're too nervous to give you their real name then they probably wont go through with your meeting anyway. Once you have their name, you can do a cursory background check on them through most social media platforms.

Get A Look At Your Client Before You Meet Up

It is always a good idea to try to find out what your client looks like beforehand using a verifiable source. Sure, getting their name and looking them up on social media is a reasonable alternative, if that's the only thing available to you at the time. However, if you can, ask your client if they'd be willing to have a video chat with you before your date. If they don't have a service such as facetime available to them, most social media platforms (such as Instagram, Twitter, etc.) include private video sharing in their services. If they feel uncomfortable sending you a message, tell them it's just so you know who to look for when you arrive at the restaurant.

Get Proof Of When They're Sending A Message

Unfortunately, even if they do send you a video message over social media, there's still a chance that they could be sending a video of someone other than themselves. To make sure that it's really your client sending you the message, ask them to include proof - such as saying a particular phrase or holding up a hand-written sign.

Let Your Client Know What To Expect

Take Precautions Before The Date Starts

As they say in the army, a strong offense is a strong defense - and that applies to escorting as well. If you want to make sure you'll be safe on a dinner date with a new client, taking a few precautions may be the best way to ensure that happens.

Tell Someone Where You're Going

First off - tell someone where you're going. It may seem like one of the most no-brainer precautionary measures, but you would be surprised at just how many escorts forget to do such a simple thing. Having people you trust know where you'll be guarantees there is always someone looking out for you.

Procure A Self-Defense Tool

Nobody wants to be in a situation where they'll need to use them, but if you ever find yourself in an ordeal where you need a self-defense tool, it's always better to have one than not. When choosing a self-defense tool, chances are it's going to need to fit in your purse - so aim for something that is small, but effective. Pepper Spray, tasers, or sharp-edged utensils are always good choices. And don't worry about creating an awkward situation if they fall out of your handbag by accident - clients expect you to carry some sort of protection, and are understanding of that.

Find Your Own Transportation To Your Date

Once your date has been scheduled, if the client says they want to meet you somewhere other than your work location, procure your own transportation to the meeting destination. If they offer to pick you up (even if they seem sincere and innocent), let them know you will find your own way there. Either use a ride-share service, public transportation, or a taxi company. It doesn't matter how nice they appear - if you can avoid it, don't get in a car alone with a client you've never met before.

Meet In Public Before You Go Private

Before you and your client head to a private location to engage in some tantalizing physical activities, let them know you'd like to meet them in a public place first. If you happen to be meeting at a hotel, most will have a bar or lounge on their premises - which is perfect for having a talk. Meeting face-to-face gives you a great opportunity to feel out your new client before they start feeling you up!

Keep Your Wits About You

Save The Partying For Further Down The Line

That isn't to say party favors can't be added into your client/escort relationship further down the line. In fact, it may be the perfect solution if either of you feels the connection between you started to wain. But as far as the first meeting goes - definitely try to hold off.

Additional Resources For The Safest Meeting With A New Client

At EscortRankings.uk, we understand that meeting anyone for the first time can be a nerve-racking experience, even more so when your financial well-being is on the line. Because when you're meeting a client, you're not just meeting someone who could potentially be a great friend, but you're also being introduced to a person that will possibly be helping you pay your bills for the next few years! Although it may seem like there are some significant differences between an escort meeting their client for the first time and two strangers going on a blind date, when you strip it all down (and we're sure you'll be stripping it all down at some point...) they are essentially the same thing. Which is exactly why we think anyone going to an appointment with a client they've never met before would benefit from reading the informative article Cosmopolitan published titled, 7 Ways To Stay Safe On A First Date. Remember, as nervous as it might be meeting your new sugar daddy (or sugar mama), by following these top safety tips for meeting a new client, it'll be nothing but smooth sailing!

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